Build vs. Robbing?

Have you ever wondered whether you have hurt someone?

just imagine.

you love your friend so much,
not knowing you are taking someone else's bestfriend?

you love your boyfriend so much,
not knowing you are robbing the love of another's?

you love yourself so much,
not knowing that you are withdrawing yourself from the world?

when you love, you feel that you are in the possession of the thing or person you love. however, what if it/the person belongs to someone else? ever thought you will rob someone of the opportunity of building love for him/herself? ever thought that when you think youre building love, youre actually destroying someone else's castle? you are here laughing with your boyfriend, but at the other end, someone else is crying because he left her for you? here you are feeling as if youre on top of the world, while she on the other hand is at the edge of a cliff?

selfish. you think?

random thoughts.